The Power of Letting Go: Why Clients Don’t Owe Us Anything in Couples TherapyIn couples therapy, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that success is measured by whether or not the therapist can “fix” the relationship. However, one of therapy’s most liberating and transformative ideas, especially when working with couples, is the simple yet
Transparency in couples therapy extends beyond mere honesty; it’s about authenticity, vulnerability, and open communication. When therapists express themselves authentically and maintain consistency in tone, it fosters trust and rapport with clients. Elizabeth Doherty Thomas, co-founder of the Doherty Relationship Institute, delves into the significance of transparency in therapeutic settings, drawing from conversations with her
Couples therapy is often a delicate dance, with therapists navigating the complexities of two individuals’ lives intertwining. However, a common misstep in this dance is the premature separation of couples therapy into individual therapy. Elizabeth Doherty Thomas, co-founder of the Doherty Relationship Institute, sheds light on this critical issue that has plagued the field for
In the world of couples therapy, the concept of scaffolding often remains overlooked, yet its significance cannot be overstated. Elizabeth Doherty Thomas, co-founder of the Doherty Relationship Institute, sheds light on the critical role of scaffolding in therapeutic interventions. Scaffolding, as she explains, is the art of gradually building upon empathetic rapport to gently guide
As a couples therapist, it’s easy to fall into the trap of relying too heavily on a single diagnosis to understand and address the challenges within a marriage. However, in my experience, I’ve found that one diagnosis does not encapsulate the complexities of a marriage problem. Let’s explore why. When we diagnose a problem within
As a couples therapist, it’s essential to recognize when we encounter resistance or pushback from clients. Instead of viewing it as a barrier, we can see it as an opportunity for growth and reflection. By acknowledging and addressing these moments with humility and curiosity, we can deepen our understanding of our clients’ needs and strengthen