A huge problem Bill sees in couples therapy land is turfing an individual off to personal therapy and dropping the relational work. Bill spells out why he almost always does relational work for couples who present for couples therapy (outside of rare scenarios), and how we can damage or destroy marriages by ignoring their reason for seeking our help. Hear a few past cases and where the need for individual work can be met, but only after setting up the relational contract for couples therapy.