The Couples Therapy Field Lacks a Way to Prioritize Where to Start with Multi-Problem CouplesHighly experienced couples therapists learn, through clinical trial and error, how to prioritize goals in couples therapy--where to begin when there are lot of problems. Our couples therapy field, ho... Watch the Video
Too Invisible In Couples Therapy: Treatment Approaches With External StressorsWe want to shine more light on a pretty invisible part of what causes marriages great stress: external stressors. Sometimes both individuals have them but more often one person is being hit hard. The... Watch the Video
Three Levels of Agitation to a Marriage And Why They MatterThere are three kinds of agitators to a marriage. The challenge is to use different tools for helping couples with their interactions around each kind. Otherwise, we are one-trick-ponies. Learn more ... Watch the Video
Fragility of the 3 Way Couples Therapy System If One Person Presents as Much More VulnerableIt’s not uncommon for one spouse to present with more vulnerability than the other partner, for any number of reasons. The challenge in couples therapy is to not tilt the system to individual therapy ... Watch the Video
Skin in the Game If A Spouse Says They Think Things Are FineIt’s not uncommon for one partner to have a lot of complaints about the relationship and the other partner basically says, I think we’re fine. Or worse, we’re fine, it’s my partner here who has all th... Watch the Video
Helping Couples Without Unpacking the Endless Causes Of Their DistressThis video includes a mantra Bill repeats often. It’s foundational to the balance between confidence in our ability to help couples and humility about how much we can really identify the many possibl... Watch the Video
